It’s November, which means one thing: my Facebook feed is riddled with “today I am thankful for… posts.” And, although I think these are great for the most part, for some people, I’m like,
I know. I’m horrible. Pray for me.
I very passionately think that we should be thankful every day for the blessings in our lives, regardless of how big or small, and I try to instill this belief into my children. However, since being thankful is the theme of November, we do have a similar tradition in our household that we started last year.
Behold our family Thankful Tree of 2012:
Basically, every night at dinner, each family member writes what they are thankful for that particular day on a leaf which is taped to the tree. Here’s a close up:
My favorite from last year was The Younger Boy’s leaf that read ‘Ninja Turtles.’ Because who doesn’t love the Ninja Turtles?!? He also had a leaf for ‘good things that God made,’ showing us that once again how exceptional our then 7-year-old is.
This year, the kids were so eager to start the Thankful Tree again, that at the end of October, they were pestering me to cut out a million construction paper leaves. We had to be ready for November 1! And, we were. Here’s our tree so far for 2013:
And, as usual, my boys don’t disappoint. On day 1, The Older Boy was thankful for cats. Not us, not other family members, not his friends. No. His cats. Which reminds me of this post. Geez…that kid is so obsessive. Is there such a thing as ‘cat detox?’ But, don’t fear, ‘cuz he’s also thankful for popcorn. Hallelujah!!!
The Younger Boy is thankful for pilgrims and indians, as well as dolphins and sharks. Apparently, he is in a contrasting mood lately. Also, the leaf that reads ‘Jeremy,’ which is his father/The Husband, has devil horns and a tail. I’m not sure yet if I should laugh at that one or schedule therapy.
Kids are wonderful creatures. They love everyone and everything, and sometimes they love these things equally. My mom? Awesome. My cat? Awesome. Popcorn? Aaaaa-mazing!!!
So, taking a cue from my kids, I’ve decided to list some of the not-so-obvious things that I’m thankful for. God, my husband, my boys, my Church are a given, but there are many things that I am truly thankful for that may not seem so obvious to some. Plus, after being so sick this year, you do gain a new perspective on things. Things that I count as blessings today are things I took for granted yesterday.
Without further adieu, here are just a few of the things that I’m thankful for:
- Every day that I feel well. People always say that they are thankful for their health, but lose it, and you will really gain a new perspective. I got dressed by myself today! Like a big girl! Woo Hoo!
- Razors. No, I’m not joking. The Husband is participating in ‘No Shave November’ and has had a full beard since November 3. I’m currently resisting the temptation to shave him in his sleep. So, yes, I’m thankful for razors.
- December 1. I know it’s not here yet, but this will be when The Husband, willing or not, will shave his face. Come on, December!
- I’m thankful that The Older Boy is oblivious when other kids are making fun of him. I’ve personally witnessed other kids picking on him for being a special needs’ child. It breaks my heart; I become enraged; he doesn’t even notice. He is confident in who he is. I’m thankful that these little jerks aren’t changing who he is, aren’t making him question his own greatness.
- Soap. I’m a germophobe. ‘Nuff said.
- Incredible people, who for a lack of a better word, I guess I will just refer to as friends. These people seem like so much more, I even consider many of them family at this point. Topping the list would be the Ninja-Priest-Friend, who has been ever-present, bringing Communion when I couldn’t make it to Mass, hearing confessions in my home, and giving spiritual advice when I felt like I was on the brink of a spiritual meltdown. In addition to him, we have many friends who have surprised us by cutting our grass when we just got out of the hospital, brought us meals, babysat my kids, and called or texted me just to check in. They have made this whole ordeal a little more bearable.
- A twisted sense of humor. I have laughed at myself more this year than I should probably admit. It should be sad…but it’s not. Life’s too serious. Lighten up.
- For weeks, I couldn’t feel my fingertips, so I went around saying, “Who’s got 2 thumbs that she can’t feel? This girl!!!”
- My left leg was dragging for a little while in October, so I was trying to figure out how to fit it into a gimp costume of some sort.
- I had to sort all of my meds into a million-compartment color coded pill-box to keep them all straight, and I laughed about how I could hang with the geriatric ward. (A week ago, I kid you not, I was visiting with The Husband’s grandmother, and she asked me how many medications I was on. We had a whole conversation about meds. Kindred spirits!)
- I’m thankful that The Younger Boy is a little freak. I’ve always been a little weird, and apparently the freak apple doesn’t fall far from the weirdo tree. For example, the kid went to the library a few weeks ago and looked for a biography on Alfred Hitchcock. You should have seen the look on the librarian’s face; I’m sure he doesn’t get many requests from 8 year olds for that sort of thing. Philip is so different and unique, and I pray that he remains that way, regardless of how his peers may view him. He’ll be one cool adult.
- Indoor Plumbing. Because, eww.
- Headphones. As much as I love my children, and as much as I like spending time with them, sometimes I just need to drown them out. Enter the headphones. God bless whoever created them.
- I’m thankful that I’m thankful. No, I haven’t lost my mind. Just stick with me for a moment here. Gratitude is a virtue, and I believe that true gratitude is a very important part of being a true Christian. To be grateful calls us to be aware of the gifts that God has bestowed upon us, whether they be big (like family and wonderful friends) or small (like soap and razors). It calls us to see the things around us not as entitlements, but gifts. It is quite humbling to realize that we are so fortunate to live in an area that has indoor plumbing and running water when there are areas of the world that do not even have clean drinking water. So yes, I’m thankful for being thankful. I’m grateful that God has opened my eyes and shown me how fortunate I am.
There really are many more things that I’m thankful for, and I could go on and on, but I won’t. Not because I’m worried about boring you–see how considerate I am–but more so because my little blessings are about to get off of the bus and utter chaos is sure to abound the minute they enter the house. In a few minutes, there will be screaming and crying. Tantrums will be thrown about homework and chores. Fights will ensue.
And that’s just me.
So, share with me. What are the not-so-ordinary things that you are thankful for?
“All that is good, all that is perfect is given us from above; it comes down from the Father of all light; with Him there is no such thing as alteration, no shadow caused by change.” James 1:17